Do you need a healthy dose of “I Don’t Give a F....”
- Audrey Cook
- Apr 24, 2018
- 3 min read

Here’s the deal....I, like You, didn’t understand a lot of things. I didn’t know how to create a e-mail marketing system, create a funnel, or even create a video but I just got to the point where I just didn’t give a f.... about not knowing how to do it. I made a lot of mistakes, I was thrown in Facebook jail because people thought I was spamming but I just didn’t know any better. I was learning things the hard way and having obstacles thrown at me, set-backs but I think it was a product of the pain I was in at the time.
Have you ever been in such emotional pain that you get to that point where you just don’t give a F.....? Sometimes you just get to that point where it doesn’t matter how many times you fail. I was struggling and frustrated. I wasn’t getting any leads, and was running into all kinds of crap that you will have to deal with.
The difference though, I think I resurrected when I was 15 or 16, I was told by a teacher that I was no good and would never amount to anything. Now understand, I’ve been knocked down so many times in my life emotionally but the one thing I always did was stand up for myself. Every time I was backed up against the wall, I would come out swinging every time and I always felt like I had to prove myself to people until I got to the point where I just didn’t give a F.....
But you know what? The more people criticized me, tried to put me down, the tougher I got. I’ve had people just down right be nasty to me but I know who I am, what I stand for and what I am capable of.
After about a year of struggling online, I started getting good at this stuff and found I really enjoyed it. So even though people were trying to throw jabs at me, they could do whatever they want but they cannot take my spirit. I was having a lot of crap happening to me both at my job at the time and in my personal life but I decided I was going to figure this stuff out or die trying.
I stopped watching TV, going out and I immerse myself into this business because I was so hungry for it that I became numb to all the obstacles, challenges and battles. It wasn’t until about 7 months into it that I made my first commission.
My point is, we spend too much time in our heads and you need to push that stuff down and into your heart because when your heart gets involved, something happens.
The will to win is not built in your brain. It’s built in your brawn. It’s in your gut, it’s built into a deep emotional place. You can be broken down in so many ways but the one thing they cannot break is your spirit. You cannot measure your spirit.
When we talk about doing the impossible, that’s a matter of heart, a matter of will, it’s a matter of something nobody can see but you and we all have it.
We spend way too much time on the surface.
If you want to live your dreams, and overcome limitations of your money, and your life, and the dreams you have. YOU have to get to the point where you just don’t give a F....., no matter what you are facing. It has to become so beneath you, that you give up trying to defeat it.
When you finally get to that point, trust me, the answers will come, the Help will come. It will get easier, not in terms of the work but within you, it will become easier. Then it will go from being hard, to a little easier then to almost nothing to where it won’t matter.
It will become like it doesn’t really exist, you just deal with it.
Live your dreams!
YOU cannot do it if you're in your head!
Tap into deeper You!
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